The following are the key learning points:
Understanding the belief to be separate and realising this is the root of necessary psychological fear and a sense of lack
Dealing with thoughts of being a separate self.
Dealing with sensations of being a separate self.
Background
The mind and body are our local “vehicles” and contain all the necessary resources to enable survival on a physical level. They are innately social in nature and function based on a set of universal needs and instinctual and mental capacities. The realisation of Oneness is the optimal context for the health of mind and body and enjoying the experience of living. However, when we do not consciously recognise this experience, we lose ourselves in the experiences of thinking and feeling. This creates the illusion that we are our mind, body, and a separate object in a world of separate objects. This creates the distorted belief that, as a separate object, we will cease to exist, which is the hidden root of unnecessary fear and a sense of something missing. This hidden root is shrouded in various distracting false beliefs and black-and-white thinking, all of which arise in reaction to this existential fear. Furthermore, believing to be separate, we believe the environment is separate from us, and we cannot trust it will support us. Our minds fill with controlling strategies to attempt to resolve our fear and sense of lack. This affects all aspects of daily living, generally dulls our enjoyment of life, and is the foundation of many more chronic mental and physical health issues.
Linking our experience of psychological suffering to this hidden belief of separateness can be seen clearly in the contrasting light of the experience of Oneness. As we open to this experience, gradually, the habitual belief to be separate loses its grip on us and dissolves. We are increasingly liberated to enjoy a life free of unnecessary fear and a sense of lack.